about emily
No one taught me how to be "sex positive" - I learned it through practice. After getting out of a long term relationship wherein I thought my lack of sex was my fault, I unleashed myself into the world of kink and BDSM. Through many BDSM sessions and kinky encounters, I discovered a part of myself that, once experienced, brought a new dimension to my life - not just my sex life. Among other things, BDSM taught me communication skills and how to set boundaries. And it taught me a lot about myself. Because it changed my life, I had a passion for sharing it with others and helping them open up to whatever sexual desires they had. The more permission I gave myself to be sexually open and adventurous, the more I saw people who took my advice flourish sexually. I didn't learn BDSM or kink from a book. I am not a professional dom/sub. I am simply a person who experienced BDSM, kink and the dom/sub dynamic first-hand and then combined that experience with her training as a life coach and her teaching skills to help others open up to their “inner kinkster” in a non-judgmental way. Once I saw the healing that can take place in someone through this practice, I couldn't help from sharing it with others. And, lucky for me, I found a kindred kink spirit in fellow BDSM Coaches, Bella and Wendy, who share my passion for BDSM and has a wonderful way of mentoring others through their own kink journey. Together we look forward to helping you through yours.
You can read about my coaching philosophy here.
about isabella
Isabella Frappier is a sexual activist and pleasure mentor, focused on body literacy and sexual sovereignty. Featured in Netflix, Goop, Vice, Sex With Emily podcast, Isabella works with clients in one-on-one video sessions and in group workshops and transformational online courses to help them embrace their sexuality, incorporating aspects of feminist BDSM, sex magic, and even astrology into her work. She is a co-host on the Sex Magic Podcast. Isabella offers free sex education on Instagram, as well as a popular weekly Erotic In Motion class where you can explore empowering feminine movement and community support. In the area of BDSM, Isabella coaches singles and couples in communicating and negotiating boundaries and desires, as well as teaching individual rope tying sessions which she likes to call spiritual sensual Shibari.
about wendy
Wendy Perkins is a trauma-informed orgasm guru, with ADHD and years of experience in both BDSM and Play lifestyles. While working as a submissive at the legendary Dominion, Wendy adhered to the high standards that were required and learned everything from high protocol, bondage including rope work, scene safety, negotiations, and most importantly, the magic of Dom/Sub dynamics. As an orgasm guru, she understands the neurobiology (the chemistry and physiology) of orgasms and specifically the impact trauma plays in someone’s ability to experience deep pleasure. With her in-depth understanding and education in trauma, she trains and certifies other coaches to become trauma-informed. In the area of BDSM, Wendy coaches singles and couples how to open up to their play safely and how to use orgasms in scenes.
